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Should I Specialize in Low- Or High-Conflict Family Cases?

Specializing in low- or high-conflict family cases makes it easier to figure out when to turn down a case. Consider the pros and cons of each to help you decide.

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Pros of specializing in low-conflict family cases

Less stressful

  • Clients are more focused on resolving their case than arguing.
  • Clients can usually communicate with the other party, taking the burden of being an intermediary off you.

More positive outcomes

  • Clients often settle.
  • Low-conflict clients have less chance of returning to court over disagreements.
  • When parents get along, their children often have easier upbringings with less anxiety.

Personal satisfaction

  • It can feel good to know you had a hand in helping a client resolve things amicably.
  • With a low-conflict family practice, you'll have more time to help more people.

Cons of specializing in low-conflict family cases

Potentially lower earnings

  • Low-conflict clients may only hire you in a limited capacity, then self-represent in court or use mediation to resolve their case.
  • If you avoid high-conflict cases altogether, you're narrowing the scope of cases you can take on.

Mundanity

  • Some clients may come to you to just draft an agreement. After a while, this work may become uninteresting if you'd prefer to do more.

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Even though low-conflict cases are generally simpler, you'll still need a convenient way to manage your clients.

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Pros of specializing in high-conflict family cases

Wider client base

  • You can handle different types of high-conflict cases (e.g., high-asset divorce and complex custody).

Exciting challenges

  • Solving a difficult "puzzle" of a case and arguing it in court excites some lawyers.
  • Continuing legal education programs help you expand your knowledge in high-conflict areas.

Higher earning potential

  • Since you're taking on more complicated cases, you can ask for more when setting fees.
  • Clients rack up more legal fees as their cases take longer to resolve.

Cons of specializing in high-conflict family cases

High stress

  • Emotionally volatile clients often let their feelings about the other party cloud their judgment.
  • Serious accusations like abuse require intense fact-finding to prove or disprove them.
  • Building rapport with other professionals, such as custody evaluators, requires extra work.

Lack of resolution

  • Clients are more likely to return to court over disagreements and disobedience of court orders.

Using technology to manage high-conflict custody cases

Custody X Change helps you manage the difficulties of high-conflict custody cases.

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