A Parenting Plan Template for Parents in High Conflict
Philip M. Stahl Ph.D, ABPP (Forensic) has an excellent book called Parenting After Divorce: Resolving Conflicts and Meeting Your Children's Needs.
Regarding parenting plans for parents with high-conflict situations, he says: "You might find that more detail is needed than you think so that there is less conflict in the future. If you create a careful and well-thought-out parenting plan, you can save considerable aggravation later."
Information to include
He recommends the following parenting plan template for parents in high conflict.
A clear and well defined schedule
Along with a schedule that shows when each parent has the children, Stahl recommends that parents specify how exchanges will be made for visits, a procedure for a one-time change to the schedule, who has the ultimate power to decide when the parents disagree, etc.
Information about making decisions for the children
The parenting plan should state if the parent who has physical custody has the right to make daily decisions and how the parents will make big decisions together.
Information about financial responsibilities
The parents need to decide how they will pay for things that aren't covered by child support.
A process for how the parents will manage disputes
Parents can use mediation, arbitration, or other methods to resolve disputes out of court.
Provisions
Parents in high conflict should be specific about how they will:
- Provide care when the parent isn't available during custody time (the right of first refusal gives the other parent priority)
- Handle transportation during exchanges
- Review and make changes to the plan
- Handle additional responsibilities of parenting (child's illness, school meetings, etc.)
- Manage the child's religious education
- Share information with each other
The easiest way to make a parenting plan
A well-thought-out parenting plan is crucial for parents in high conflict. A detailed plan with airtight legal language could be the difference between cooperation and returning to court.
The Custody X Change app walks you through each step of creating a plan so you can account for all possible situations.
It's easy. Just use our parenting plan template to quickly choose the provisions that best suit your circumstances.
The result will be a professional document that demonstrates your competence as a parent and has safeguards to prevent violations that could disrupt your child's life.
The easiest and most reliable way to make a parenting plan is with Custody X Change.